When Relationships are a Puzzle
Over time in a relationship, you become comfortable with each other and flow along with shared interests and activities. At some point, though, circumstances change, and fireworks – or an argument – arises. The relationship moves into a dangerous time of conflict.
Entries Tagged as 'Relationship'
Thriving in Comfort & Conflict
July 1st, 2010 · No Comments
Tags: Adaptive Action · Choice · Comfort Zone · Communication · Conflict · Expectation of change · Habits · Improved relationship · Preparing for Uncertainty · Problem Solving Strategies · Relationship · Relationship Renewal · Relationship Review · Relationship patterns · Relationship puzzles · Stretching your relationship · Thriving
Feeling soggy?
June 17th, 2010 · No Comments
Is it all the recent rain – or is it your relationship that needs some sunshine?
Sometimes, rain or shine, you just need to get out on a date! Maybe it is time to do something different. There are lots of fun activities in the summer in the Twin Cities. You can do some web searches, talk to friends, [...]
Tags: Date Night · Date Planning · Exciting · Fresh date ideas · Fun · Memorable · Relationship · Relationship Renewal · Romantic Adventures · Romantic Themed Dates · Things to do in Minnesota · Twin Cities Destination · Unique Dates
Staying Married
June 10th, 2010 · No Comments
Hints & Hotspots to Help You
Have you ever heard of Dr. Pepper Schwartz? She’s a Sociology prof at the Univ of Washington, and a sexologist who has written 12 books and is a leading industry expert on relationships. She has some effective tips on staying married, which we are going to pair up with some [...]
Tags: A+ Romantic Ideas · Cheap Date Night · Date Night · Ft. Snelling · Fun · Improved relationship · Marriage Enrichment · Relationship · Relationship expert · Romance advise · Romantic Adventures · Romantic Themed Dates · Staying Married · Things to do in Minnesota · Twin Cities Destination
S T R E T C H Your Relationship!
May 19th, 2010 · No Comments
Two Romantic Twin Cities Destinations
Every relationship needs stretching from time to time. Think about it as if you are taking your daily commute via a completely different route. You see things right around home that you hadn’t noticed before, or from a different angle. Take a new view of each other by trying something you’ve [...]
Tags: A+ Romantic Ideas · Act of Collaboration · Cheap Date Night · Ft. Snelling · Fun · Geocaching · Marriage Enrichment · Mosaic on a Stick · Relationship · Romantic destination · Stretching your relationship · Things to do in Minnesota · Twin Cities Destination · Wildlife Safari Challenge
Relationship Shockers
April 7th, 2010 · No Comments
Looking for a guarantee – on the rosy relationship path?
The truth is, you cannot anticipate possible shocks to the relationship. You cannot control the free will of your partner. In essense, the future is unknowable.
Tags: A+ Romantic Ideas · Adaptive Action · Choice · Communication · Divorce Prevention · Fixable Marriage · Goal Setting · Marriage Enrichment · Preparing for Uncertainty · Problem Solving Strategies · Relationship · Relationship Review · Relationship patterns · Reverse Stress · Rosy Relationship · Worst relationship fear
Indifference: The Heartbreak Culprit
March 31st, 2010 · No Comments
Sure, there are many causes of a broken heart…
…but we would be willing to bet that often they begin or end with indifference. This lazy offender usually takes hold of only one spouse in a marriage, but it’s attacks deeply wound the other.
Tags: Couples Counselor · Divorce Prevention · Emotional withdrawal · Fixable Marriage · Indifference · Learned Helplessness · Perfect Illusion · Relationship · Relationship Review · Relationship mistakes · Uncategorized
Perfect Marriage?
March 17th, 2010 · No Comments
Or is Your Marriage Good Enough…
Paul Amato, Ph.D., professor of sociology, demography, and family studies at Penn State, conducted a 20-year study on 2,000 subjects who started off married, and says 55 to 60 percent of divorcing couples discard unions with real potential.
Tags: A+ Romantic Ideas · Anger · Communication · Divorce Prevention · Emotional withdrawal · Fixable Marriage · Good Enough · Problem Solving Strategies · Relationship · Relationship Review · Relationship inventory · Uncategorized
Relationship Time Out?
March 11th, 2010 · No Comments
Giving the Gift of your Attention in 3 Steps
Think of all the requests for your time, attention, and focus. Do you give yours away, wasting this precious resource? We all feel it – the constant demand for our attention, the feeling of not having enough time. We risk feeling overloaded, distracted, or just stressed out. [...]
Tags: A+ Romantic Ideas · Choice · Communication · Divorce Prevention · Goal Setting · Keep it Simple · Precious Resource · Problem Solving Strategies · Relationship · Relationship Review · Reverse Stress · Synergy & Focus
Romance Worries?
March 3rd, 2010 · No Comments
Where do Relationships fall on the Worry-Meter?
In a recently conducted LHJ.com poll, they found that 18% of readers worry about their relationship.
http://www.ladieshomejournal-digital.com/ladieshomejournal/200908?pg=47#pg47
Now maybe that doesn’t sound too earth-shattering. After all, 46% worry about their job. (Another good reason not to mix romance and work – it ups the worry-anti to 64%)! But what if you [...]
Tags: Communication · Divorce Prevention · Goal Setting · Marriage Enrichment · Problem Solving Strategies · Relationship · Relationship Renewal · Relationship Review · Weekend Get-Aways
OLYMPIC CHALLENGE
February 24th, 2010 · No Comments
3 Challenges in the Relationship Olympics!
Watching the Olympics’ is always uplifting – you see such dedication and persistence — Such commitment to a particular goal. And teamwork that is unparalleled. Sounds perfect for the Relationship Olympics…Take the Challenge!
Tags: Common Goal · Divorce Prevention · Effective Listening · Love Olympics · Marriage Enrichment · Persistence · Problem Solving Strategies · Relationship · Relationship mistakes · Synergy & Focus · Teamwork







